Tuesday, May 19, 2009

i was figuring out when melvin, andrew and angela always say when i ask them how did they know that their wife or husband is the one for them when the were dating.

"got a special feeling."
"you just know it."

yea, i know. their replies are all very f up. it's like not even eleborating it. worse, it doesn't answer my question.

and finally, after 1 year. i figured out what they were trying to mean. it means that no matter how poor he is, how xiong are the quarrels, no matter what happens(having affair and cheating not included), you still wants to be with him. all you want is him to be good.

and all these leads to this,

I, (Bride/Groom), take you (Groom/Bride), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.

this special feeling is simple. just 3 words. he's the one. and you're willing to go through everything with him.

he's the one. its still the same as what melvin and gang gave. prolly, you have to have this special feeling in order for you to understand why why their replies was "you just know it".

this special feeling doesn't comes in every relationship. it is a strong feeling that holds both together and no matter hard difficult life is down the road, the both of you still stood still, holding on tight.

its a special force that helps both to go through the storms together.

and that's why they said, the power of love.

i have feel it and now i understand it. do you too?

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