So when we meet up we always do something meaningful like going out to interesting places and movies and fine dining and things that couples can usually do like going for neo prints.. and photo taking session.. to sentosa beach to relax.. spa together..
It is not about the quantity.. it is about the quality.. if we meet up everyday.. but our life revolves around us sitting around doing our own things but in each other’s presence.. then i guess no point.. cos it is a waste of time…
Quality time is more than mere proximity. It’s about focusing all your energy on your mate. A husband watching sports while talking to his wife is NOT quality time. Unless all of your attention is focused on your mate, even an intimate dinner for two can come and go without a minute of quality time being shared.
Quality conversation is very important in a healthy relationship. It involves sharing experiences, thoughts, feelings and desires in a friendly, uninterrupted context. A good mate will not only listen, but offer advice and respond to assure their mate they are truly listening. Many mates don’t expect you to solve their problems. They need a sympathetic listener.
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