"There's no doubt about it-breakups suck. But in the first few hours or days or weeks that follow, there's one important truth you need to recognize: Some things can't and shouldn't be fixed, especially that loser who dumped you or forced you to dump him. It's over for a reason, and deep down inside you probably know what that reason is.

At the end of the day, it's about weather YOU like yourself enough to face the reality that your romance wasn't working.. to recognize that it wasn't giving you what you needed and deserved

Life's biggest rewards come from the biggest challenges.

Anyone who assesses you or your relationship as "disposable" is not worthy of your time or tears.

Just remember, though, that any reasons you come up with are ultimately irrelevant. The harsh reality is that even if you have EVERYTHING else in common, the one thing you don't have in common is the belief that this relationship can work. & that alone trumps your shared love of puppies, The Dave Matthews Band, and Mexican food.

A lot of the pain you are experiencing right now is actually fear. Fear of things being different then how you liked them, fear of never finding love again, fear of being alone, fear of having to fill your time differently. We're afraid of the unknown.

The person you loved took a good long look at the awesomeness that is you, evaluated your relationship together, and said, "No, thanks. I'll try my luck elsewhere." Or you said it to him. Either way, that alone should make you realize that it wasn't a match made in heaven

"I don't know" means "NO!"
"I don't know" means "I'm too cowardly to tell you the truth because I can't deal with confrontation."
"I don't know" means please do the dirty work for me because I don't want to hurt your feelings even more then I already have.

Awesome thought: The annoying thing that your ex did will never bother you again. I'm sure that your plan to get him back worked out in your head. I'm even sure that it worked out in some movie you saw. But your ex does not have the time to follow a movie script and you shouldn't either. Move on.

Every moment of pain, weakness, and discomfort puts you in a position to choose how you will react and how you will alleviate your condition. Calling him doesn't make it better.. it only pulls you back into the cycle of heartbreak.

He is the past. You are the future.

Messing up his life isn't the best revenge. It's getting on with yours and living it to the fullest.

One of the sulkiest and most frustrating facts of life is that sometimes relationships just end, often without reason. I truly believe that some times both men and women simply run out of love, even when there was a lot of it in the beginning.

Before you look for validation in others, try and find it in yourself.

As much as it sucks, you need to FORCE yourself to remember your very worst times together, ..his most irritating habits and the hard truth that not only can he live without you.. but he'd rather.

You're giving an okay guy who cheats on his girlfriend a hell of a lot more credit then he deserves. He's a coward and a betrayer of not one but TWO women. He clearly feels ambivalent about you at best.. otherwise, he would have left this other woman a long time ago.

So many of us find ourselves saying "BUT HE WAS SO GREAT!" Yes, and the people who got on the Titanic thought they were going on vacation. Things changed and it's important to remember that they did.

Awesome thought: The right guy is out there right now, wondering when he's going meet someone just like you.

His regrets or lack thereof are exactly that- his . and not even the best little black cocktail dress can change that.

Every time you see him, you only make yourself vulnerable to further heartache. Do you really need further proof that he's getting on with his life without you?

The one who dumped you has had a huge head start on the healing. However long he entertained ending the relationship is also how long he's been emotionally extracting himself from you.

He was either partially or totally over it before you even knew it was going down

You weren't in the same relationship. That should answer ALL your questions.

You can love your friends.. ..you can love your family ... you can even love every stray dog or stray drummer that crosses your path. HOWEVER, you have to learn how to love yourself, like yourself, and put yourself first before you will ever find the healthy, loving, and lasting relationship that you've been looking for."

- It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken

When you fall in love, it is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake, and then it subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots are become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day. It is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every part of your body. No… don’t blush. I am telling you some truths. For that is just being in love; which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over, when being in love has burned away. Doesn’t sound very exciting, does it? But it is

Who's gonna read this? Cause i got a little secret in it. geehee.

I wanna blog! so so much. but i don't have the time. i wanna blog about everything that has been happening, all the funny, sad, angry, dramatic and those dead drunk stories. i really wanna blog, if only i have 36 hours a day. i wanna blog about how much the entire co hate jackpot eye. i wanna blog how much she pissed me off. but sad, this blog is opened to public and also jackpot eye is damn busy body about my life and she worship me, don't you forget about that. i wanna blog about how good work has been and how much i don't wanna leave that place. i wanna blog about my company's d&d, how the MC made me dig a hole to hide myself. i wanna blog about how the MC disgrace the indian how thought she won the lucky draw. i wanna blog about how drunk we were for 2 nights at shanghai dolly that i'm greatful that ho sold his handphone away to avoid anyone in future to ever look at the drunkard me. i wanna blog about how much i love eating mee goreng. i wanna blog about the treatment i went with 2nd sister and how i ended up going back to my old way - conning man's money. nevertheless, i'm greatful that twitter invented twitter to allow me update on my daily stuffs, which looked much alike i'm talking to myself most of the time, making me look so stupid in twitter because they don't search hotmail. so i can't find my friend. maybe i'm still a twit noob, but seriously, who cares? at least i update my twit when i feel like. but i'm thinking of something that i think noelle and queky would agree with me and the thing is: NOELLE CHUA SERIOUSLY FLOOD MY TWITTER EVERYDAY, ESPECIALLY IN THE MORNING. WAHAHAHA! and adeline is busy with her stupid dumb ass korean show that she doesn't reply to any of my twit. hmmm, maybe she's angry with me for ytd but she did 'like' my facebook status when i post about jackpot eye what. anyway, i know jackpot eye has always been following me invisibly on twiiter, i really see no point in locking the whole page. seriously for what? so what if she knows about my daily life and i bitch here and there about people i dislike? so what? if i lock it, what's the point to even have a twitter account? TWIITER IS FOR UPDATING OF YOUR STATUS TO LET PEOPLE SEE! hellya. so what now? this post is really getting outta hands and i have no idea what the hell am i talking about, just like the interview i did yesterday. i was literally taking with thinking. whatever it is, i hate that job, the pay is lowwwwww. oh shag, now, hotmail and google are having god knows what problem they are have now, i can't send any resume out! in the meantime, gossip girl is getting real bored after 3 seasons and jenny is getting bitchier which makes me wanna bitchslap her. but i love vampire diaries, climax to the max man! oh ya, ho and i spend money like water seriously because he got an increment. okay okay, better save from next month. the only thing i hate about ho is that he followed my real bad footsteps. the goods he don't even bother. for the holy 2 years, he has become a person who dislike eating at foodcourt or kopitiam! of everything he can learn from me, he purposely wanna learn this. the other day i was saying "we go foodcourt eat, have a fast one then go shop." when he reach the foodcourt he said, "go find restaurant eat lah!"steady pom pi pi man! and now, tell me you didn't read this because if you do, i gotta thank you for taking my nonsense for this few mins of your precious time. oh great! TGIF TGIF TGIF!